I love this question everyone assumes that since I’m Catholic I’m going to judge you, however that is far from the truth. I love meeting new people being from a small town I have gotten to know so many people and all kinds of walks of life. Yes people will judge we are human. I will give you an example when I transferred schools there was this girl who came up to me on the first day that I started school and said this about her ex boyfriend who she just broke up with “you need to stay away from him.” In that moment I realized that I wasn’t going to like her not because of who she was but because she told me to stay away from him , he ended up becoming one of my best friends. I don’t care who you are I will always be nice to you no matter what your background, your “status” or what you have accomplished in life. I love meeting new people. I have soo many friends from college, high school and so many other places. I can’t judge thats not my job. If you know me you know I’m not close to my dads family and I don’t have relationship with them not because I choose to have one because they decided that. I have questioned because of it and I never will understand the “WHY” however at the end of the day they have to answer to God not me. If I go to bed each day knowing I tried to make things right then my job is done. I am one of Gods children therefor I can’t be mean or rude because there are so many other things to put my energy towards then being mean. In the Bible it talks about how we shouldn’t judge other people. My favorite verse for it is Luke 6:37 “Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven”. Remember this you will never know what other people are going through what trials God is giving them or what tests they are taking. Do you want people to judge you? Do you want people to criticize you?
"Do not judge by appearances, but judge with right judgment.”- John 7:24